We Take a Different Tack
When raising the anchor my wife, for various reasons rides the bow, holding on to the furled genoa for support. I man the wheel, engine controls and haul the anchor up using the starboard sheet winch. (I gave myself a set of self tailing Andesens this winter to free the tailing hand for steering.) Believe me guys, this is better than having my wife at the helm while trying to bring the anchor up. Besides, where we sail there's almost always too much wind for voices to carry thirty plus feet without screaming. My wife's job is to signal, using one arm, the direction in which the anchor rode lies ahead of the boat. The angle of her free arm is supposed to approximate the angle of the rode so I know where to steer. As the rode comes vertical she is to wave her hand side to side. When the anchor gets up to the platform she is to hold her hand up in a closed fist. (Universal stop signal.) Notice there are no finger signals involved!This system has actually worked a couple of times! At least with my wife out of the cockpit there's lots of room for me to move around. This winter I purchased a pair of Motorola VOX enabled FRS radios and VOX head-sets. This in itself should reduce the need for raised vioces.The boat is of coures set up for this. The rode is run around the stanchions, each of which has a Schaefer outside lead furling line block through which the rode runs to reduce friction and keep it off the side decks.This system is far superior to screaming face to face!