Blue Water
If you're going across an ocean, small boats cannot outrun the weather so they have to be able to survive whatever comes. Take a look at the scantlings, hull to deck joint, chain plates, mast step, keel bolts, tiny cockpit, narrow companionway, small ports, and thick hull layup (if you can see it) of something like a Pacific Seacraft, Hans Christian or Bristol Channel Cutter. They're built like tanks. Tanks that make pretty lame daysailors.On the otherhand, look at the same features on an <30ft Beneteau, Catalina, or even a racing boat like a J Boat or Olsen. In spite of the marketing hype, these are much more lightly built and obviously not nearly as strong. But frankly, the skill level of the skipper is the primary determinate of if a boat will get in trouble.I bought my 1981 Hunter 30 because its a strong plain boat. Are you in a marina? Walk down the row of boats and look at the size of the forestay chain plate, turnbuckles and forestays on similiar size boats and compare it to yours. You'll feel better about your boat, but some more expensive, newer boats may look cheesy.I don't know much about your waters, but I make 50+ mile offshore passages pretty regularly in my 1981 H30. Of course, regardless of what boat I'm in, I check the weather, all the safety equipment, VHF radio, base of the rigging, and all the through hulls before I do. You should too.Oh, and every sailor I ever met has listed their local waters as "in the top ten as far as ruff seas." I guess 10 places somewhere really are, but thats no reason not to go sailing.