Gunni may have a good point. Just adding a 3rd reef might not make a functional storm sail out of a mainsail of "normal" cloth weight and reinforcement. I imagine the in-mast furling rigs can get it down to something quite small, but a 3rd reef remains a fixed amount of sail. Kretschmer discusses this option in
Sailing a Serious Ocean but where he happens to favor the 3rd reef point over the trysail. (But what weight sails does he carry?) I recently ordered a new mainsail where I did not ask for a 3rd reef point to be installed. Of course, I rarely find myself in even 30-35 kt wind w/8-ft seas as we typically sail well within 40 n.mi. of shore or sheltered island locations in Southern California (unlike your venue). Sunday's storm brought unusual 12-ft seas in the San Pedro Channel but I don't know why anyone in a "recreational" sailboat would wish to be out there in them

. The Baja HaHa had challenging conditions this year off northern Baja California with high winds and large seas in that range, and evidently many sailors put in at San Quintin Bay the first or second night (an unscheduled stop) to await better conditions. That might not have been a good time to go out (i.e., at the start of the rally in San Diego) but if you're with the rally then I guess that's when you'd go. The only weather you have any "control over" is the weather you leave in--as we all have mused. So, if you're going to do that (be out there in gales) then preparation is essential, of course.