AtlanticAl. You obviously didn't read my post in detail. I do have extensive offshore and keel boat experience. You tried to belittle me to a dinghy sailor and a reader. Shame. Real sailors are developed in dinghies. Accept the fact you are in the minority regarding the method of heaving to.
Yes you quoted someone named Bond. He says sheet the headsail to windward and lash the tiller to leeward. He says nothing here about the main. I do not have a copy of Bond to research your claim. Did he say anything earlier about dropping the main? Or did you just assume he had? Many experienced offshore sailors almost always use both headsail and main as the practice promotes balance. Heaving to with reefed main and storm jib actually calms the boat surprisingly well.
The original question regarded anchoring offshore. Heaving to or sea anchor would be the appropriate answers. How he would do so is up to him. This is not a forum for quibbles.
I started sailing dinghies when i was thrteen, i was in the merchant marine at 20, I have sailed the ocean, in both merchant ships and sailboats. I may well be outvoted on how to hove to, but since most of the people talking about it, have only ever done it as either an excercis in calm waters, or from a arm chair reading a book, it dosent really bother me.
I took a guy of 26 in my boat a few years ago, before we sailed, their was nothing he didnt know, his experience was infinite, worth much more than my 20 years in the merchant marine, my 4 years in the sea cadet corp when i was at school, my membership of two yacht clubs, as well as the Royal west of scotland amatuer boat club. First time i saw him tie a bowling, i thought, "their is something wrong there" he tied it the boy scout way. When we hit heavy weather, he spent all his time vomitting, came to find out, he had never been on a boat until he was 24, and had only sailed two summer seasons, in sheltered waters, all his stories and experience, were lifted from the pages of books.
I am happy to take a boat out to sea, even when i know i am going to hit bad weather, because i have already seen the worst that weather can do while in the merchant marine, and i know, that a sailboat, will stand up to that weather, every bit as well as a merchant ship will, provided its handled properly. I am not going to say, i would attempt to sail through the dangerous quadrant of a hurricane in a thirty five footer, but i wouldnt attemt to to it in a sixty thousand ton tanker either. Becauser it would tear the mast off, with the sails down, and it would swamp it, and the tanker, it would smash that to pieces.