I guess you just have to see it.
Your description is quite clear. I sailed in San Francisco Bay and The California Delta for 35 years. One recognizes the differences between tidal heights and currents, and their times. Of course, they are listed in the great tide¤t books available in The Bay Area. Here on Vancouver Island, things are a lot more complicated, but the concept's the same.
A simple example: you use tide heights to anchor, you use currents to sail.

And they're out of whack with each other for about an hour in San Francisco. Now that spring has finally sprung up here (and I didn't sail since November) I'm learning what "The Deal" is up here by learning the HUGE book and tables that come with it.
The fact that you have a bridge to deal with certainly complicates your particular issue, one which
may be almost unique to your location and mast height.
The good news is that almost every place we boat has predictable tables to tell you all this. Of course, everywhere is subject to variations due to heavy rains and outflow.
Good luck.