Hi Jim,
A couple of weekends ago I took my 14-year-old nephew sailing on San
Francisco Bay. Travis lives in Fresno, his mother and father (my brother)
are divorced (it was ugly), and he hasn't been anywhere other than Fresno.
When I gave Travis the helm as we were motoring out of the Oakland inner
harbor Saturday morning, Travis experienced the usual confusion with
steering with a tiller. During the day I let him steer under sail, explaing
to him about wind, point of sail, weather helm. I'm sure the info-dump went
over his head, but I'm also sure he got a grasp of the complexity of what
sailing a boat is all about. Motoring back into the channel Sunday evening,
I handed Travis the helm, and went on deck to put out the fenders, as I
looked back into the cockpit, he looked confident. I asked him how he felt.
"Relaxed," was his reply.
Before he left for Fresno, I gave him Jobson's beginners sailing book. I
called Travis later in the week, and asked him if he looked through Jobson's
book. He said it opened up in class (summer school), and looked through it,
and started reading about the parts of a boat. Then he asked me if we could
sail out around Alcatraz. Sure, let's go.
Sailing's good for teenagers. I was out with some friends a few weekends
ago, and let their teenage daughter's friend handle the helm, under sail and
motoring. Just like Travis, I notice a new sense of awareness as she steered
down the channel.
I'm almost certain that one of the things that goes through these kids'
minds is: "Hey, this is some serious shit going on here. I need to be
careful." I notice that they get real focused on what they're doing when on
a boat. There not as busy being self-absorbed with their everyday lives.
Sailing is one of the greatest metaphors for life. It teaches you how to
keep your nerve in a crisis, and how to steer a straight course, among other
things. It's rewarding when you can pass this knowledge along to someone
younger, and see the inkling of a sense of accomplishment, confidence, and
an appreciation of what respect is all about. These are some of the reasons
why I love sailing so much.
Steve DeMont
"Erendira"
Vega 2947