and my opinion is..... (2) 6v batts and at least a 60watt solar panel is NOT overkill.... the 2 batts maybe a bit more than you need right now, but if you have the money to do it, do it good the first time so you dont have to upgrade later... so go with the 100w panel also.
its always more expensive to do it over at a later date just to get what you really want...
you may be planning for weekends now, but in 6 months it may be 4-5 days, or longer sometimes. who knows what you may want to do in the future, but one thing about a well installed solar set up, providing the boat is sound and in good repair, a good solar charging system will add somewhat to the value of the boat. or it can very easily be taken off and used on your new upgrade boat... you wont lose by installing a good strong system the first time.
its always comforting to know you can hang out as long as you want AWAY from the dock, and not have to ever worry about power consumption... and if you trailer to a spot that has no dock power, your solar set up will take care of you...
myself, I am not much of a dock lover, so on my 25 I have (1) 12v battery with a 130watt panel, and we can run all the lights, have the ipod on the stereo going all night, and use the computer for several hours everynight, and monitor the VHF.... I dont ever worry about power consumption, because I know when morning comes, I will recharge even on a cloudy day..... (I know I am sacrificing my single battery with the deep discharges, but it doesnt happen often. (2) 6v's would be better)
and it charges fast enough that even if I ran the single battery down pretty low the night before, I can run all my nav equipment and the autopilot as soon as I am ready to sail in the morning....AND bring my battery to full charge before the sun goes down, all without worry or wonder....
when I first bought the boat, I tried the charging up all week, and then running the battery completely dead a few times on the weekends, and personally, I didnt like it.
so for an investment of $450 I bought a system that works like magic to keep the battery amped up, and should last 15-20 years....
so in my opinion, its not overkill... its proper planning and getting the most stress free enjoyment out of your boat that time will allow.... yea, it does cost another few dollars up front, but its absolutely worth it if you are going to spend a lot of time on the boat away from the dock.