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Sam, I was not going to reply to this thread any longer, but that comment our yours "It griped me that some sailors thought we were trying to have an accident to find some one else to blame" just rubbed me the wrong way. I assume that you were talking about my posts, and yet I said no such thing as you imply. Who, in their replies said that you "were trying to have an accident to find someone else to blame"? I did not see such a thing said, and I challenge you to show where it was said.Secondly, unless I am mistaken, you were on the boat yourself, and you, along with your wife allowed this "inexperienced" person to take the helm, and yet you put the "blame" on the captain, as though you were both unable to speak or react in any way. What happened, did someone put tape over your mouths and tie you down so that you were unable to express to the captain that he should bring the boat in, since your wife had not steered a boat into that marina before? "I agree with the people who aptly said that the captain was the broker and that he was responsible for turning over the helm to somebody who never sailed out of Marina Del Rey. He was not watching where an inexperinced customer was steering the boat in a heavily silted up inlet."Yep, that's where I said that you were looking for "someone else to blame". If you knew that your wife had never piloted a boat out of Marina Del Rey, why did YOU allow her to do it without speaking up, and why did she stay at the helm? Not your fault, or your wife's, surely it was all the fault of the captain.I believe that you did the right thing in the end, and am not trying to get into a fight with you. If you had not mis-stated my comments, I would have let it rest, but to go to the length that I implied that you "were trying to have an accident" just does not sit well with me, and I have to respond to that statement.I am glad for everyone involved that it all worked out well. Fair winds to you.