Cruising across the Juan de Fuca strait as calm as glass was therapeutically relaxing.
That just goes to show it's a bit different for everyone. I absolutely hate the endless "buck, buck, buck" of the diesel, when between the mainland and Vancouver Island in calm weather. It's like being in a power boat but dragged out over a longer period. Boredom to the extreme.
Give me early spring and fall along the pacific northwest any day. Less traffic, more wind. In general, it's people that I find stressful/annoying, whether they are running into you, or making a peaceful anchorage noisy.
But...there have been times when the weather has made me wish for a bit of boredom.
I guess the real answer.... as you say... is... it depends.