Hold it! If you widen the cracks, you gotta fill them. You cannot just prime the widened cracks. The reason to widen the cracks is to remove the impurities trapped in them. You widen them, clean them, and fill them. Then you can use a high-build primer, a sealer primer, and top coat. Painting over them without widening them will just trap air and water in the cracks, and the cracks will open again shortly depending on the environment. If you use a VERY thick layer of epoxy paint, you can keep them closed for a while. Also, consider WHY the gelcote cracked. If the deck is not sound beneath, that has to be fixed. If the gelcote was faulty, the deck and core may be ok. If you are dealing with an existing non-skid, you should remove it, grind it off with a 36 grit wheel right down to bare fiberglass. Then, you can use the two primers and top coat with grit in it.
As noted previously, most boats of an age have some cracks. Some cracks you can live with. You can always cover them with different products. Frankly, all that sanding and repairing... I have done it, but it ain’t sailing!