Being a single guy, I've sailed with some pretty amazing women over the years.
Many were mere neophytes having never operated or sailed a boat before.
Sailing with friends, there seems to be a male mentality of, "I AM the captain."
I've witnessed this over the years. Guy captains whether they do it consciously or not, seem to relegate
their female mates to much minor roles while sailing.
I on the other hand, have always made sure to include my female guest in the overall sailing experience giving them the feeling that yea, "I am not only a sitting guest but rather.........an equal crewmember."
Many times, I've seen the captain's woman just sitting there while the guy captain does everything & thus she remains just simply an observer. I on the other hand, make sure to involve my female guest in sail handling, line adjustments, course steering & the dynamic principles of sailing. Now, she can then feel directly involved & enjoy the experience that much more. Let's face it, anyone can go below to get drinks or food.
I also believe that alot of women seem to steer a boat better than men even after a quick course in the dynamics. I think it has something to do with their superior patience vs. men. If your lady friend learns the "ropes," it can make your trip so much more enjoyable & also less physical. It can also give us guys time to go below to maybe re-do our makeup, maybe our hair knowing that the boat is in good hands topside right?
CR
Many were mere neophytes having never operated or sailed a boat before.
Sailing with friends, there seems to be a male mentality of, "I AM the captain."
I've witnessed this over the years. Guy captains whether they do it consciously or not, seem to relegate
their female mates to much minor roles while sailing.
I on the other hand, have always made sure to include my female guest in the overall sailing experience giving them the feeling that yea, "I am not only a sitting guest but rather.........an equal crewmember."
Many times, I've seen the captain's woman just sitting there while the guy captain does everything & thus she remains just simply an observer. I on the other hand, make sure to involve my female guest in sail handling, line adjustments, course steering & the dynamic principles of sailing. Now, she can then feel directly involved & enjoy the experience that much more. Let's face it, anyone can go below to get drinks or food.
I also believe that alot of women seem to steer a boat better than men even after a quick course in the dynamics. I think it has something to do with their superior patience vs. men. If your lady friend learns the "ropes," it can make your trip so much more enjoyable & also less physical. It can also give us guys time to go below to maybe re-do our makeup, maybe our hair knowing that the boat is in good hands topside right?
CR