So I decided to start with the fitting that is already built into the tank. I bought a new elbow fitting with the same size threads and the biggest nipple I could find. Then I found sanitation hose that matched my nipple size. So no unnecessary holes drilled in my holding tank. The inside diameter of the hose is 5/8 inch. Yes, it's not 1 inch but it's better than a pinprick in my stanchion.
And there is the matching through hull. My hole came out right in the center of a raised molding on the outside hull of the boat causing my through hull to not be long enough to receive the nut. And once you've already got a hole drilled, there's no other way to deepen the face of the hole except to wallow it out with a spade bit. Not very nice looking but it's inside the cabinet and holding strong.
For anyone who wants to tell me I should have gone with 1 inch hose, I would have been very happy for you to come here and make the existing holes bigger. I wasn't capable of it. I really don't think it is possible since no tools will fit in those spaces. I am of the school of thought that any improvement is better than no improvement.